Thursday, August 19, 2010

Lauren's Latest Venture

Here is a link to Lauren's latest "project."  After a quick email to our ward she filled all six spots and has two on a waiting list.  It's been a great way for her to channel her energies into something productive.
http://laurenslittlelearners.blogspot.com/

The new addition


I'm not a big pet person (unless it is a pet rock or stuffed pet), but after much work and effort I did allow Lauren to get a parakeet a few years ago.  Then Ben took it upon himself to find pets.  This involved a variety of caterpillars, worms, snails, pill bugs, grasshoppers, etc.  Usually I get him to set them free after a short "visit" however he did have a couple of caterpillars turn into cocoons and one into a chrysalis.  Also we had a friend who found a little tree frog and gave it to him.  It was amazing how quickly the "pets" became frog food :)  Well Ben was a very faithful caregiver.  Several times a day he would mist his pets and every couple of days he would dig up more worms for the frog.  It worked for me because I had minimal responsibility and it met his need to nurture and care for something.  Ben was very fond of his frog and would often sit and talk to him or "play" with him. 
When we decided to go out of town Dad volunteered to take care of the pets.  Ben provided instruction in the proper care of frogs and bugs and Lauren gave him the scoop on the bird.  Each time we talked to Dad Ben asked about his frog and how he was doing.  One of those days Rusty informed me that the frog had died.  Evidently Dad forgot the all important water factor. After many tears Rusty promised Ben that when he came home he would help him get a "new" pet.  Ben turned his attention to pet dreaming- bunnies, snakes, lizards, chinchillas, turtles, guinea pigs, etc (he knew not to even ask about dogs or cats as I had already banned those options). I could see a nightmare in the making. 
When we got home and visited the pet store I figured I needed to intervene. Surely there is some pet somewhere that someone is done with that we could adopt.  I quick search of craigslist confirmed that there where tons of cats and dogs and glory be a small robo hamster- complete with cage and all of the necessary accessories.  So now we have a new pet- Robo Whiskers Clarke.  He is very tiny and very quick and fairly low maintenance.  Every day I let Benny take him into the bathroom so he can run around- which meets Ben's needs for "playing."  Other than that he sits in his little cage and sleeps most of the day. The best part is that hamsters have a fairly short life expectancy. That sounds cruel I know, but at least we won't have a forgotten and forsaken cat or dog that no one wants to take care of - you would think I had a bad pet experience as a child (I did).

To Utah and Back

We were so lucky to have a fun trip to Utah to spend time with family.  Unfortunately Rusty doesn't have time off yet so I went without him. My parents have a time share in Park City so the kids decided to bring their spouses and children and join them for a fun week away.  With so many of us sharing space I'm just happy we're all still speaking with each other- j/k. 
It was an amazing moment on Sunday to look around the room and see kids everywhere and think in 25 years I'll be the grandma and my kids will be the moms and dads and I'll have a room full of busy little bodies that are "mine."  Wow!  What an important thing it is that we nourish good family roots now so that we can enjoy the fruit then.  I feel so blessed to have such an amazing family.  I hope I can do as well as my parents :)
I think I'm really beginning to feel my mortality, but time seems to by moving so quickly I just cherish each day.  While we were there my grandma's twin sister died and we found out my Aunt had a cancerous tumor growing on her brain.  Life is so fragile and it takes so little to change everything.  I try to remind myself often to enjoy my time and not wish it away.

I don't think we really "did" much in Park City. The kids went swimming at least once every day.

 



They made crafts and played games and just hung out together.  The girls all made cute flip flops and then Grandma painted their toenails with flowers and jewels. The boys made catapults and had marshmallow wars.

After our time up north we stopped down to Cedar City for a quick visit with some friends.  Unfortunately we didn't have much time as I was reaching the end of my vacation tolerance.  I've decided I'm not a very good single mom. Our drive home involved multiple stops for puking and a really grumpy 4 year old, so I was very grateful when we finally got home to dad.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Summer Reading Carnival Celebration

The library in Waxahachie is not quite like the libraries in other places.  It is a very old, small, private library.  It is not "connected" with other libraries in the area.  They are nazi's about their books and a bit difficult about requesting, renewing, etc.
BUT they really know how to incentivize a summer reading program!  My kids were reading maniacs this summer.  The reward was a carnival full of games, treats, prizes and all sorts of fun. In spite of the super duper hot weather the kids had a great time.